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Wednesday, April 27, 2011

How to praise our kids

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Here are some tips on how to say encouraging words to our kids.

HELPFUL PRAISE                                       UNHELPFUL PRAISE

"Thank you for polishing the floor,     "You are truly mother's little helper."
      it is so clean and shiny." 
"Thank you for washing the car,                 "You are an angel."
        it looks new again."
"I liked you birthday card.                          "You are always so thoughtful."
It was so pretty and witty."

"Your poem spoke to my heart."          "You are a good poet for your age."

"The lantern you made looks beautiful."       "You are such a good artist."

"Your letter brought me great joy."   "When it comes to letters, you're an A."

"I appreciate your fixing the bed           "You did a better job than Mommy."
             this morning."

"Thanks for telling me that I still have         "You are such an honest child."

  a change. I appreciate it very much."

"Your composition gave me a lot                    "You write well for your age."
              of new insights."

"I appreciate your setting the table                   "You're very helpful."
           while I cook dinner." 

*According to Dr. Haim G. Ginott in his book Between Parent and Child, the single most important rule in praising a child is that, praise deal only with child's efforts and accomplishments, not with his character and personality.

So, praise, like medicine must not be administered irregularly. Frame your words in such a way that the child will almost inevitably draw from them a realistic conclusion about his personality. - adapted from a magazine.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Mommy Moments: Rainbow Colors (Easter Gifts for Kids)

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Early this month, I requested my daughter to draw me some personalized Easter gifts for kids. I intend to use the drawing for my food blog. After a few minutes, my daughter gave me this colorful drawing - her idea of homemade Easter gifts for kids. :)



Let us not forget the true meaning of the Lenten Season. Happy Easter, everyone! :)

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Wednesday, April 20, 2011

How to Protect Ourselves from Nuclear Radiation

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Here's another letter I received from PAN (Pesticide Action Network Philippines).

After much reluctance to reveal the real situation,  the  authorities have now officially raised the nuclear reactor accident in Japan  to the highest alert level similar to the Chernobyl disaster. However, the effects of radiation to people’s health and the environment are still being downplayed by governments and the mainstream media.  Misleading and false information regarding nuclear radiation and the dangers of exposure, particularly to lower levels associated with long-term adverse effects,  continue to dominate whatever news is available to the people.  Lives are at stake and this nuclear disaster  is not something to trivialize.  People, collectively and individually, should seriously begin to take steps to protect themselves from the nuclear radiation fallout and the inevitable contamination of our environment and our bodies.

Here are some suggestions:
1.       Get as much information as you can and don’t just rely on official sources. Seek out independent sources of information and study  the issue carefully. Seek out and consult independent experts if available. Be especially wary of commercially syndicated  media  which usually dish out government and industry viewpoint.  Make use of the internet but be aware that even Google is being accused of suppressing alternative media.

2.       Join or link with pro-people groups working on the specific issue or related issues. Make use of social networking and encourage other groups to be involved in the issue. Initiate discussions on different aspects of the issue (health, environmental, social, political, economic). Obtain as often as possible any information on radioactive contamination  (air, soil, water, plants, animals, and food) and be guided accordingly. The greater the contamination, the more stringent protective measures should be undertaken. If there is no available information locally, demand from the government that they undertake such monitoring. It is the government’s obligation to do so. If the government does not do anything, exercise people power!

3.       Learn, develop and implement practical mitigation and protective measures. Avoid exposure to radioactivity as much as possible. If radioactive fallout is likely in your area, stay indoors, especially if it rains. Rains increase the fallout of radioactivity from the clouds.  If you get wet, put your clothes in a wash area and take a shower. Leave umbrellas, raincoat, and shoes  outside and prevent rainwater from entering the house. Do not use rainwater for drinking or home use. Close doors and windows and prevent outside air as much as possible from entering your rooms. Install air filters on windows if feasible. Do not use air conditioners. Wear activated carbon filter mask if you cannot avoid exposure to outside air. Stock up reasonable amounts (depending on severity and duration of projected radioactive fallout)  of  basic survival provisions, especially water and food.  At this time, it is probably reasonable to have adequate provisions for at least a month.

4.       Maintain a healthy lifestyle (adequate nutrition, sleep and exercise; avoidance of toxic chemicals and unhealthy foods and drinks, avoidance of other physical and emotional stressors). Take uncontaminated  iodine rich foods (seaweeds, etc.),  fruits (guava, bignay, duhat,  etc.)  and vegetables (malunggay, alugbati, ulasiman,  kamote tops,  etc.) rich in antioxidants, and anti-radiation herbs (garlic, onions, ginger, roselle, basil, rosemary, oregano,  etc.).

5.       More stringent protective measures should be accorded to the vulnerable members of the community such as pregnant women, children, senior citizens and those with pre-existing illnesses, especially those with compromised immune system. These groups, especially pregnant women and young children,  will be more susceptible to the adverse effects of radiation even at extremely low doses.

Radiation monitoring by government agencies is grossly lacking. The current monitoring being undertaken  by the Philippine Nuclear Research Institute cannot reasonably reflect the true levels of radioactive fallout in the entire Philippines. The sampling of a few  imported food products from Japan being done by the Food and Drug Administration  is grossly inadequate and does not provide reasonable level of protection to the public. It is not true that the levels of radioactivity measured in a few instances of sampling are “safe.” Comparing these measured levels of radioactivity to those from natural sources is inappropriate and misleading. The toxicologic  effects of radioactive particles from a man-made nuclear reactor are different from the radiation effects from natural sources and a comparison of equivalent doses of radiation between the two  is not correct.  Even very low levels of radiation exposure can lead to cancer and other illnesses.  There is no safe dose.

An expanded and more systematic  radiation monitoring should be done. Air monitoring in more representative areas of the Philippines should be undertaken, especially in areas facing the Pacific Ocean. Soil deposition of radioactive particles should also be done as well as monitoring of radioactive bioaccumulation in fish, plants and animals. Radioactivity monitoring of food imports should done more extensively, including imports from countries which are most likely contaminated also by significant radioactive fallout (e.g.,  milk and milk products from the US and Europe).

Radioactive fallout projections from various sources indicate that the Philippines is already being subjected to significant amounts of radiation coming from Japan and will  most likely continue to be so for at least several months. It is in the best interest of the people to take the precautionary approach based on best available evidence, assume the worst case scenario  and immediately institute protective and mitigating measures.

Source:  

Romeo F. Quijano, M.D.
Professor
Department of Pharmacology and Toxicology
College of Medicine, University of the Philippines Manila


Dr. Quijano also recently testified at a Senate inquiry on the effects of nuclear radiation.

Recommended websites for reference:

http://www.idealist.ws
http://enenews.com/
http://ratical.org/radiation/
http://www.llrc.org/
http://fukushima.greenaction-japan.org/
http://www.fairewinds.com/
http://www.counterpunch.org/busby03282011.html
http://www.irsn.fr/FR/popup/Pages/irsn-meteo-france_Film-Chine_8avril.aspx

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Mommy Moments: Summer plans

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No summer plans yet for the whole family as of this posting. hihi. But I requested the kids to list down their own plans or what they intend to do for the whole summer. Here's what they have to say.

Naomi:
1. Practice drawing
2. Finish reading at least 2 novels
3. Watch lots of movies
4. Travel
5. Attend a summer art class

Khalil:
1. Play with Oreo
2. Feed Oreo
3. Play computer games
4. Renew membership (computer game)
5. Watch tv

How about you, do you have special plans for the kids this summer? Share it with us at Mommy Moments. Click on the badge right above this post to get you to more entries this week. See you around. Happy Sunday! :)

Looking for printing press and promotional items

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Two of my husband’s acquaintances are in need of print shop to make promotional brochures for their upcoming campaign probably late this month or early next. One of those in search for cheap printing shop handles the real estate marketing program of their office and needs a compelling brochure content for their target market.

Hubby could have accepted the printing job, it’s an additional income for their company, but their machine at the office is not properly working. Worried that accepting the printing job might cause a delay to the scheduled promotional campaign of his friends, he referred them to his contact who owns a printing press. If I knew hubby’s friend, I can tell them to check out AmsterdamPrinting.com for their promotional needs besides sending out brochures to potential clients.

Exhibit attendees would love to receive useful items like personalized pencils, pen, and keychain or tote bag.

Sunday, April 10, 2011

Preparing for unexpected events

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Some of my relatives are encouraging me to secure health card for my family and Burial insurance plans just in case something unexpected happens. Although I know the importance of those, I still feel uneasy when topic such as sickness or death is discussed at home.

Health card is like a cash in your wallet in case of emergency. You can go to the hospital and have a checkup or undergo emergency procedure without having to worry that you don’t have money to pay for it right away. On the other hand, burial insurance for senior citizens or burial insurance in general, will help families save for funeral expenses.

You can also inquire about burial plans that qualify the old vets. We don’t know for sure when accidents or tragedy will strike but at least we are prepared for possible events.

Monday, April 04, 2011

Mommy Moments: Congratulations!

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I’m sharing one of the blessings that we received this year. My daughter is included in the school’s honor roll. We don’t actually expect that she will still be included in the top 10 because she and her brother were absent from their class for almost two weeks due to dengue fever. But my daughter’s persistence didn’t stop her from pursuing her goal to be in the top students' list. She and her brother took the special exams a few days after they were released from the hospital.


When I took their report cards last week, Naomi's adviser told me that during their grade deliberation, Naomi jumped for joy when she found out she'd be in the honor list.


We are equally happy for our son who brought home these certificates for the contests he participated in this school year.

Congratulations kids, you made us really happy and proud.
We love you so much. 

My share for Mommy Moments.

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